KE!N EINZELFALL im Dialog – Trauma, attachment and relationships
With “Trauma, attachment and relationships”, our event series “KE!N EINZELFALL im Dialog – Knowledge meets experience” began on 10 August 2026. Our …
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What has been lives on.
Some encounters, projects and events stay with us for a long time. In our review we show where we have been, what we have set in motion and which experiences have shaped us along the way.
Here you will find impressions of events, collaborations, workshops, volunteering fairs, projects and special moments from our work as an association. Some of them led to new contacts, others sparked new ideas or showed us once again how important visibility, exchange and shared commitment are.
What lies behind us has left its mark – on our work, on our relationships and on what we carry forward today.
That is why we look back on moments that have touched us, changed us and moved us forward – on encounters from which connections grew, and on experiences that still resonate in our work today.
With “Trauma, attachment and relationships”, our event series “KE!N EINZELFALL im Dialog – Knowledge meets experience” began on 10 August 2026. Our …
Assistance dogs can be an enormous support in everyday life for people with disabilities, mental illness or trauma-related impairments. At the same …
The sudden changes to the Fund for Sexual Abuse (FSM) did not just unsettle many survivors – they shook their trust.
KE!N EINZELFALL e.V. had the opportunity, within the working groups of aus-unserer-sicht e.V., to work intensively on social compensation law, and …
With “Trauma, attachment and relationships”, our event series “KE!N EINZELFALL im Dialog – Knowledge meets experience” began on 10 August 2026. Our aim was to bring specialist knowledge and lived experience together.
Because trauma does not only affect individual memories or symptoms. It can also affect trust, closeness, safety and relationships – and with them partnerships, families, friendships and everyday life as a whole.
We were pleased to welcome Lutz-Ulrich Besser as our speaker, a specialist in psychiatry and psychotherapy and founder and head of the Centre for Psychotraumatology and Trauma Therapy in Lower Saxony. In his keynote he explained clearly why traumatic experiences can change attachment and relationships, and why reactions that sometimes seem hard to understand from the outside can make a great deal of sense from a trauma-therapy perspective.
Afterwards, the focus was on shared discussion. Questions from the audience and questions submitted in advance were taken up and looked at from different angles.
Here too, a setting that creates as little pressure as possible was especially important to us. Taking part was free of charge and anonymous if desired, cameras and microphones did not have to be switched on, and questions could also be asked via the chat only.
For us, this evening was a successful start to a format that is meant to connect exactly what is often considered separately: expertise meets experience. With the questions that occupy people living with the consequences of trauma.
Because sometimes understanding alone changes how we see ourselves and each other.
KE!N EINZELFALL im Dialog – Knowledge meets experience.
Assistance dogs can be an enormous support in everyday life for people with disabilities, mental illness or trauma-related impairments. At the same time, the path there is often complicated: training, suitability, funding, rights, obligations and how it all works in everyday life raise many questions.
That is why we took up the topic in several free online events.
Part I – Training, rights and obligations
On 30 October 2025 we welcomed Ullrich Horn from the Spürnasenakademie.
Together we looked at, among other things,
It was especially important to us not only to talk about the dog, but about the team of person and dog.
Because an assistance dog is not an aid that simply “works”. It needs good training, a suitable task, a stable bond and a person who can take responsibility for it.
The difficulties of everyday life were also discussed openly: a lack of knowledge about access rights, uncertainty in shops or institutions, and the question of how stressful it can be to have to explain or enforce your rights again and again.
Afterwards it was clear: the topic is much bigger than a single event.
Part II – Handlers & attitude: responsibility, everyday life and rights
That is why a second part with a different focus came about.
This time the focus was not on a talk, but on an open exchange of experiences.
People with their own experience of assistance dogs, training and dog ownership contributed their perspectives.
We also discussed questions that are often not asked enough:
This part was particularly important to us because assistance dogs do not only open up possibilities. They also bring responsibility, training, organisation and sometimes additional stress.
One thought therefore ran through the preparation:
Don’t just ask: What can an assistance dog do for me? But also: What does this team need to really work?
Our events were aimed at people with an assistance dog, people in training, interested people, relatives and professionals. As usual at our events, participation was free of charge and did not require membership.
For us, this event series was an important look at a topic that is often presented too simply.
Assistance dogs can enable independence and participation – but good support starts with looking honestly together at opportunities, limits, rights and responsibilities.
The sudden changes to the Fund for Sexual Abuse (FSM) did not just unsettle many survivors – they shook their trust.
New deadlines, annual instalments, the end of advance payments and complicated transitional rules were hard enough to understand as early as the beginning of 2025. Many survivors suddenly no longer knew which rule applied to them, what could still be applied for and how benefits that had already been approved could still be used at all.
That is why we offered several free online events on “FSM vs. open questions”. We did not just want to pass on information, but to sort out what had become confusing because of so many new rules. Together we looked at when an approval had been granted, which deadlines applied, which instalments were affected and what had actually changed.
These events then gave rise to our “help with filling in new applications”, which we also offered several times free of charge. We went through the applications together step by step, answered questions and tried to turn a stressful and complicated procedure into something that felt a little less overwhelming, working towards the application deadline of 31 August 2025.
We encouraged people, we motivated them, we helped them submit new applications.
Then came 24 June 2025.
Suddenly the FSM announced that, retroactively, first applications would only be considered if they had been received by 19 March 2025 – even though a much later application deadline, 31 August 2025, had been used until then – and that no further new applications were possible from then on.
For many survivors this was more than a shock!
We were shaken and ashamed that after 19 March 2025 we had still motivated and supported so many survivors to submit this stressful application, which was now no longer accepted.
People had plucked up their courage, gone back over their own story, gathered documents and filled in applications – often under great psychological strain. And then they had to learn that their application would no longer be considered because of a cut-off date set retroactively.
We too were disappointed, angry and stunned. Because a support system for people who have experienced severe violence, of all things, should act reliably, transparently and in a trauma-sensitive way – and not add the feeling of once again having no control and being let down once again.
So a planned session to help with the application became a space for “frustration and questions”. Everything was allowed there: disappointment, anger, uncertainty, open questions and worries about what would happen next. At the same time, we looked together at which options still existed and how survivors could continue to assert their rights.
We continued our events in November 2025. Under the motto “We will not be silenced – we keep fighting!” we gave information on new developments, existing support options and the further winding-up of the fund.
At all of these events it was particularly important to us that nobody had to overcome additional hurdles: free of charge, no membership, no need to give your real name, camera and microphone optional, and questions possible via the chat at any time.
Our FSM events were therefore much more than information evenings. They were places to understand, sort things out, be supported, ask questions and be heard.
And they showed us once again very clearly: help must not itself become the next burden. Whoever promises support must also make sure that people can rely on that support.
Together, KE!N EINZELFALL.
KE!N EINZELFALL e.V. had the opportunity, within the working groups of aus-unserer-sicht e.V., to work intensively on social compensation law, and in particular on the change from the OEG to SGB XIV and the implementation of SGB XIV.
Our chair Tatjana Belmar took an active part in the working group on social compensation law (AG SER). The working group focused on survivors’ experiences with the previous victims’ compensation law and the new social compensation law, and on how procedures could be made more survivor-centred, more transparent and less stressful.
An important part of this cooperation was the conference day in November 2024. There, Tatjana Belmar ran the workshop “SGB XIV – a first evaluation of social compensation law from our point of view!” for KE!N EINZELFALL e.V.
In the workshop, participants looked together at experiences with the transition from the OEG to SGB XIV. Topics included application procedures, bureaucratic processes, changes brought by the new law, existing hurdles and survivors’ positive and negative experiences. The aim was to make experiential knowledge visible and to derive feedback and possible improvements for the further implementation of social compensation law.
The work in the group then gave rise to the idea of a follow-up project. The plan was a nationwide, anonymised and structured evaluation of experiences and documents from OEG/SGB XIV proceedings. The aim was not to assess individual cases, but to make recurring patterns of best practice and worst case visible.
The project was to look in particular at:
For this, a sound survey and project plan was first to be developed. This included developing evaluation categories, questions of anonymisation and data protection, securing the legal basis for using the data, and planning the later evaluation and publication.
The planning also drew on existing experience and preparatory work by KE!N EINZELFALL e.V., including existing contacts with survivors and prepared requests under the Freedom of Information Act.
The long-term goal was not only to collect experiences, but to derive concrete findings about structural problems and working solutions. These were then to be passed on to, among others, the responsible state authorities, victims’ commissioners, federal ministries and institutions of the support system.
aus-unserer-sicht e.V. was dissolved as of 11 February 2026, so the planned cooperation and the project that had been worked out could not be continued in this form. KE!N EINZELFALL e.V. has continued parts of the project on its own.
Even so, this time was very valuable for us. We were able to gain experience, network with other survivors and committed people, get to know different perspectives and develop our own work in social compensation law.
We thank aus-unserer-sicht e.V. for the opportunity to take part, for the experiences we shared and for the space in which survivors’ knowledge could be contributed and developed further.
Even though this project could not be completed together, the experience gained and many of the ideas that came out of it remain part of our ongoing work.
Together, KE!N EINZELFALL
Maybe you have an idea for a working group, a self-help group or a project. Maybe you would like to contribute something to Space for the unsaid.
Or maybe you simply want to get involved with your knowledge or your experience, your creativity or the wish to change something.
You don't need a finished plan. Sometimes something simply starts with someone saying: I have an idea. I want to contribute something. I need support. Or: I just want to be part of it.
And if you have questions about social compensation law (OEG/SGB XIV), the severe-disability ID, the care level or other support systems, or would like a personal conversation, you are welcome to contact us.